Digging Deeper

Premarital Course

Chapter 1 - Sharing Our Family Histories

The Blindspots Between Us: How to Overcome Unconscious Cognitive Bias and Build Better Relationships by Gleb Tsipursky

I Hear You: The Surprisingly Simple Skill Behind Extraordinary Relationships by Michael S. Sorensen

Transforming Your Relationship with your In-laws by Jenny Coffey & Deb DeArmond

50 Questions to Ask Relatives About Family History by Kimberly Powell

15.3 Family Patterns in the United States Today by University of Minnesota

Toxic In-laws: Loving Strategies for Protecting Your Marriage by Susan Forward

Family Tree Workbook: 30+ Step-by-Step Worksheets to Build Your Family History by Brian Sheffey

Restoring Trust in Marriage by Focus on the Family

Unlocking Your Family Patterns: Finding Freedom From a Hurtful Past by Dave Carder

Chapter 2 - Understanding Expectations and Values

How to Act Right When Your Spouse Acts Wrong by Leslie Vernick

Marriage Expectations by Calvary Church

Sharing Chores by Married Couples– Important to Avoiding Divorce? by Fait & DiLima

Understanding Family Dynamics by Psychology Today

Boundaries in Marriage by John Townsend and Henry Cloud

Married…with Household Chores by Bill Arbuckie

Family Values—What are family values and why are they important? by Bryan Zitzman, Ph.D., LMFT

Family Dynamics by Elizabeth Marshall

Fight Unrealistic Expectations by Sari Harrar

How Dividing Up Household Chores Can Impact Marriage by Janice Wood

Embracing Family Values by Brittany Gronewald M.A., CFLE

Chapter 3 - Setting Goals Together and Family Planning

Welcome to Ready Kids!

Bright Beginnings 1: Preparing for Parenthood by North Dakota State University

Toxic Sons and Daughters-in-Law: Untangling Difficult Relationships by Doyle Roth

In-Law Relationships: The Chapman Guide to Becoming Friends with Your In-Laws by Gary Chapman

How to Prepare Your Relationship for Baby by Christin Perry

Setting Boundaries with In-Laws by Jimmy Evans

Mothers-in-Law vs. Daughters-in-Law: Let There Be Peace by Elisabeth Graham

Emotionally Healthy Relationships Course Workbook: Discipleship that Deeply Changes Your Relationship with Others by Peter Scazzero, Geri Scazzero

Preparing to Start a Family by Candice Z. Watters and Steve Watters

The Dr. Cloud Show: Setting Boundaries with Your In-laws by Dr. Henry Cloud

Chapter 4 - Money and Finances

Financial Advice, Books, Classes by Dave Ramsey

10 Pieces of Financial Advice for Newly Married Couples by Trent Hamm

10 Financial Things Newlyweds Must Do by Kimberly Lankford

Why do We Worry About Money? by Roshawn Watson

Budgeting for Newlyweds: A Guide to Family Finance by Elizabeth Renter

Economic Trends by Status Money

Financial Advice Married Couples Should Not Ignore by Sheri Stritof

5 Ways to Start Your Marriage Financially Strong by Dave Ramsey

Should You Combine Finances After Marriage? by Abby Hayes

Chapter 5 - Emotional Connection

Couples Guide to Emotional Intelligence: EQ Mastery for Better Conflict Resolution, Perfect Communication, and Increased Intimacy to Improve Your Relationship by Jamie Bryce

Still Face Experiment by Dr. Edward Tronick

Emotionally Focused Therapy for Couples by Leslie Greeburg and Susan Johnson

Hold Me Tight: Seven Conversations for a Lifetime of Love by Sue Johnson

The Emotional Dimension of Love by Dr. Sue Johnson

Chapter 6 - Conquering Communication

Communication Miracles for Couples: Easy and Effective Tools to Create More Love and Less Conflict by Jonathan Robinson

I Hear You: The Surprisingly Simple Skill Behind Extraordinary Relationships by Michael S. Sorensen

Communication: Key to Your Marriage: The Secret to True Happiness by Norman Wright

Anger: Taming a Powerful Emotion by Gary Chapman

A Tale of Two Brains - Men's Brain Women's Brain by Mark Gungor

Letting Go of Anger: The Eleven Most Common Anger Styles And What to Do About Them by Ronald and Patricia Potter-Efron

Chapter 7 - Cultivating Intimacy

Lessons of Lifelong Intimacy: Building a Stronger Marriage Without Losing Yourself ―The 9 Principles of a Balanced and Happy Relationship by Michael Gurian

Forgiveness: Finding Peace Through Letting Go by Adam Hamilton

Intimacy: Understanding a Woman's Heart, Member Book by Kenny Luck

Forgiveness vs. Reconciliation by Ryan Howes PhD

Total Forgiveness : When Everything in You Wants to Hold a Grudge, Point a Finger, and Remember the Pain-God Wants You to Lay It All Aside by R.T. Kendall

Forgiveness and the Freedom of Letting Go

Chapter 8 - Building Physical Bonds

The Marriage Bed by Paul & Lori Byerly

How to Climb the Palm Tree by Mark Gungor

How We Talk, and How We Should Talk, About Sexual History by Rita Watson MPH

Sheet Music: Uncovering the Secrets of Sexual Intimacy in Marriage by Kevin Leman

Further understanding sexual communication: Honesty, deception, safety, and risk by Sean M. Horan

Intended for Pleasure: Sex Technique and Sexual Fulfillment in Christian Marriage by Ed MD Wheat

Chapter 9 - Our Spiritual Journey Together

5 Advantages to Doing Devotions With Your Spouse by Brian Manturity

What Is The Importance Of Covenant Marriage? by Matt Capps

The Marriage Covenant: The Biblical Secret for a Love that Lasts by Derek Prince

The Importance of Doing Marriage Devotional Together by Aaron and Jennifer Smith

The Marriage Covenant by Christine Schubert

I Do– Understanding The Marriage Covenant by Robin Wood

5 Ways to Keep Your Marriage Covenant by Dennis Rainey

The Biblical View of Marriage: Covenant Relationship by Michele Brewer Brooks

Chapter 10 - Succeeding in Our New Blended Family

Becoming a Stepfamily: Patterns of Development in Remarried Families, by P. L. Papernow

Mom's House, Dad's House: Making Two Homes for Your Child, by I. Ricci

Second Marriage Quiz- Is Getting Married The Second Time A Good Idea? by Marriage.com

Stepfamilies by Patricia L. Papernow

Preparing to Start a Family by Candice Z. Watters and Steve Watters

Custody Chaos, Personal Peace: Sharing Custody with an Ex Who Drives You Crazy by Jeffrey P. Wittman

Stepfamilies: Love, Marriage and Parenting in the First Decade, by J. Bray and J. Kelly

Blended Family and Step-Parenting Tips by Jeanne Segal, Ph.D. and Lawrence Robinson

Remarriage and Stepfamilies by Ron Hammond and Paul Cheney

How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk by A. Faber and E. Mazlish

Why Marriages Succeed or Fail: What You Can Learn from the Breakthrough Research to Make Your Marriage Last, by J. Gottman

Making stepfamilies work by American Psychological Association

How to Know If You Are Ready to Start a Family? by Haley Neidich

Chapter 11 - Assuring a Lasting Connection

Relationships: The Ultimate Guide to Better Relationships! - Communication in Relationships to Handle Dysfunctional Relationships and Create Lasting Relationships by Mia Conrad

Why Compatibility Is More Important Than Chemistry by Jay Shetty

Deal Breakers: When to Work on a Relationship and When to Walk Away by Dr. Bethany Marshall

8 Facts About Love and Marriage in America by A.W. Geiger and Gretchen Livingston

Stages of Marriage

The Five Love Languages: The Secret to Love that Lasts by Gary D Chapman

Divorce Statistics by Wilkinson and Finkbeiner